Thursday, 18 October 2012


Not all lies are hurtful. In fact, sometimes lying is the best approach for protecting our privacy and that of others, some researchers say. Some deception, such as boasting and lies in the name of tact and politeness, reclassified are considered as less serious. Bald-faced lies (whether they involve leaving out the truth or putting in something false), are harmful, as they corrode trust and intimacy—the glue of society.
We all lie, all the time. It causes problems, to say the least. So why do we do it?
 It boils down to the shifting sands of the self and trying to look good to others and ourselves. According to the experts "It's tied in with self-esteem," "We find that as soon as people feel that their self-esteem is threatened, they immediately begin to lie at higher levels."

"We're trying not so much to impress other people but to maintain a view of ourselves that is consistent with the way they would like ourselves to be, we want to be agreeable, to make the social situation smoother or easier, and to avoid insulting others through disagreement or discord.


You promise that you will come back. You promise to stay with me. You promise me that everything will be alright in our relationship. You promise that everything will be perfect and under control as well. You even familiarised the word of God to me. You said to me that “ if you read this and believe that everything written here is true everything will go right” remember that my dear.

Therefore, I’ve been looking for you all these years. You never tell me where you went which is wrong remembering our promises.  Yet, you promise to love me for the rest of my life. I never spend much time with you because you are always up and down everywhere my dear lover. I wanted to know you better because we are lovers. I wanted to know what you like or dislike in order to make our relationship stronger. Now see you on pictures, but I have something I want to tell you but it’s still pending on my mind .Something that has haunted me all these years. Something that I think will in favourable of both of us.

I want hold your hand. I want to hear your voice saying you love me that is my wish even my prayer as well. I want to see your face with a smile and promise me again that everything will be perfect so my heart will be fine at all the time. I miss your presence in my life.  I remember one day when we were from Town, you bought me a cake and chocolate. You smiled when you saw me carrying my bag, and wearing my new uniform. I cannot forget that day because it was my first day at school. I remember what you said, “I’m proud of you my angel”. I think it was the last time I saw you. The last time I heard your voice and the last time I saw you.
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In life, you must be ready for whatever comes your way because you never know when your life will end. Many people play with their lives without measuring the limits of what can happen to them in the end. They focus of the unimportant things wasting their time only to realise at the very end that their bad decisions have cost them a lot.

In Africa, most people believe that death is caused by a person’s bad actions or decisions; even it is God’s will. Some people do sometimes blame God; they accuse him of being the cause of the deaths of their relatives.  That is a great fallacy of black people living without faith in their lives, it is a bad conception of a non-Christians.

The rich believe that they are untouchable; they believe that if anything bad happens to them poor people who are jealous of them would have caused it. Life on earth is not uniform, we have rich and poor people and these two classes are always judging each other according to their groups. So be ready at any time because the future it is not for you, so be careful in order to escape complaining by saying that only the bad things happen quickly